Smeagol used to be a hobbit — a somewhat dwarf-like humanoid race that has large, hairy feet — but discovers a ring of power that quickly poisons his mind and has him become obsessed, leading to the infamous catch phrase, “Much like Smeagol, some women become obsessed and possessed with their boyfriend.It starts off innocently enough, wanting to spend time, getting to know one another, and humorous little jabs about how we’re “missed” when we’re gone more than a few hours.The truth is that if everything circles around their needs and wants the relationship is selfishly one-sided, and no matter how carefully you step, sometimes life’s gusts of wind can take out the House of Cards.
” I pause letting the information sink in while I sit down on my faded, tan couch.
I exhale loudly into the receiver of my cell phone and spit out the gist of the tale he just recanted.
Shame will creep into the relationship because both people feel their needs aren’t being met, and eventually a co-dependent relationship will blossom in which each person’s happiness is centered solely on whether the other person appears happy. Doom might just be the option you need to dissolve this relationship. Over time I recognized something about people who’s lives seem full of drama.
I dated a girl once whose life was a constant crisis. The common theme that emerged was that everyone seemed to be doing them wrong.
His girl runs his life and anytime he makes a slight error she jumps down his throat.